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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

16.06.2025 00:03

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

Everyone says the pet population is out of control. Everyone says you MUST spay or neuter your pets. No one wants to talk about how its almost $1,000 to spay or neuter a pet. Why is it so expensive if its so necessary? Animal shelters do it for free.

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

Do you like Melania Trump's new official 1st lady black & white power portrait?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

How old are you? Male or Female?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

Gun owners, imagine if an attacker comes to your home and takes your gun to use against you before you had the chance to pick it up. Would you regret owning a gun?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

What do porn stars do when they get old?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

*** Questions About Me ***

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

What are some photos of female sexual organs?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

What is the central theme of the entire Bible in one word (if possible)?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

Why does it matter so much to atheists that God doesn't exist?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

What did Chandrashekhar Azad say about Hinduism during a podcast?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

How do scientists behave?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

Can someone write me a sex story?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

Nothing too Serious

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

The Ice Breaker Questions

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

Any that are a turn off?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

If yes, what?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

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54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

39~ What are your love languages?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

If you win, what will you make them do?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

Family Relation Age Play

Any that are a turn off?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

29- How superstitious are you?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

Would you read them together?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

*** Random Questions ***

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

52~ What are your hobbies?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

Please share Did you stop?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

What is your favorite position? Why?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?